Monday, January 30, 2006

Conformity, Originality, and Maturity

I keep having this recurring thought and I have to blog it. I wrote it in my prayer journal a few weeks ago. It kept coming to mind during our leadership retreat.

Here's my recurring thought: I'm so grateful for a church where I can be myself.

There is so much pretense in so many churches. There is an image to uphold. It's like a game of charades that never ends! I love the Church, but there is way too much posturing and positioning. Too many churches mistake cultural conformity for spiritual maturity. There is a sense of safety and security because everyone is like everyone else. But we have a core value at NCC: conformity doesn't equal maturity.

I feel like we've created a culture that balances conformity and originality. I've preached this a hundred times. We each have a dual-destiny. One destiny is universal--conformity to Christ. The other destiny is unique--originality. We are destined to become like Christ and destined to become unlike anyone who has ever lived.

Here's a thought from my book ID: The True You:

There never has been and never will be anyone like you! But that isn't a testament to you. It's a testament to the God who created you.

The church ought to be a place where people can most be themselves.

That's how I feel at NCC. And I don't take that for granted.

3 Comments:

At January 31, 2006 9:32 AM, Blogger Bruce said...

Wholeheartedly agree Mark. In fact I preached on a similar message two weeks ago ...if I do say so myself :)

 
At January 31, 2006 11:07 AM, Blogger Johnny Leckie said...

I think of David in Saul's armor. It just didn't work.

Every now and then I have to look in the mirror, take off the armor of expectations I've added, and then go back and find my sling...

 
At January 31, 2006 11:38 AM, Blogger Mark Batterson said...

Armor of Expectations. I love that Johnny! What a thought.

Mark

 

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