We had a
leadership summit this weekend and I shared some
personal reflections with our leaders. It's an opportunity for me to
zoom out and share
30,000 foot reflections.
We are in
a season of blessing at NCC.
It's remarkable when I look back at the last six months. We've opened
a coffeehouse on Capitol Hill and
launched two Saturday night services. We hosted our first
Buzz Conference. We have
seventy-six groups meeting
this semester. And we've experienced a pretty remarkable
growth spurt over the last few months.
I'm extremely grateful for all of the above, but it is coupled with
a high degree of solemnity.
Here are
seven reminders I shared with our leaders:
1) The bigger we get the more grounded we have to stay
Two words in I Corinthians 3:5 are a vital reminder--"
only servants."
I think we have to continually remind ourselves that all we are
only servants. No more. No less. Only servants! We have
the privilege of planting and watering, but
only God gives the increase!
One of the
grave dangers that come with the blessings of God is that we can think we had something to do with it.
Divine blessings can result in
human pride. And if those blessings result in pride it would have been better if we hadn't been blessed in the first place! More often than not, God blesses us
in spite of us not
because of us!
Here is something I've noticed over the past year. People think
I know more than I know because I've
written some magazine articles and
spoken at some conferences. I hate to say it, but I don't know more now than I knew then. I Corinthians 8:2 is
a great gut check for leaders. "The man who thinks he knows does not yet know as he ought to know."
2) The bigger we get the more above reproach we need to be
I made a decision years ago that I would
never be alone with a woman besides my wife. That may sound legalistic, but I felt like it was
a safeguard against compromise. Leaders have to
take extra measures to
protect themselves against themselves and
protect themselves against those with ungodly motives.
I have taken measures with my writing and speaking to make sure that I'm above financial reproach. For example,
I always want NCC to be the direct or indirect beneficiary of everything I do. We've made arrangements with our
stewardship team so that
I don't benefit more from the sales of my books at NCC than NCC does. Is that necessary? I guess you could argue that it isn't, but I think it is.
I Corinthians 10:23 says, "Everything is
permissible but not everything is
beneficial." As our leadership expands there can be
an unhealthy and unholy tendency toward the permissible end of the spectrum! Guard against it. As our influence expands, I think it is vitally important that leaders
move toward the beneficial end of that spectrum!
3) The bigger we get the harder it is to maintain unityEphesians 4:3 says, "
Make every effort to
keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace." No easy task as a church gets bigger! It was easy to manage
sibling rivalry when we only had
one child. A lot tougher with three kids! Our
church family is no different.
Vision is the key to unity. As a church gets larger you not only need
more vision. You need to cast that vision
more frequently!
One other thought for pastors.
It's ok for people to leave your church. Some people leave for the
right reasons. Some people leave for the
wrong reasons. Some people leave because there is
something wrong with us. Some people leave because there is
something wrong with them. We need to learn from all of the above! But the bottom line is this:
you can't be all things to all people.
Pruning is normal and natural. It is less painful now than it was when we were
a church plant with a few dozen people.
We'd take all the dysfunctional people we could get! I have since learned that people need to attend a church they
believe in enough to invite their unchurched friends to. That is the litmus test.
Dead weight doesn't do anybody any good. I'd much rather have someone
happy at another church than unhappy at NCC.
Pruning is part of
preserving the integrity and unity of a church!
4) The bigger we get the more complicated things get
Confession time:
sometimes I feel like crawling into a hole!
Pastoring isn't getting easier! It's getting harder. But I have to remind myself that
the reward for good work in the parable of the talents wasn't less work. It wasn't an
early retirement or
extended vacation. The reward for
good work was
more work!
As leaders we have to guard against
the Egypt tendency--there will always be people who want to
return to the land of familiarity! Some people will want to
go backwards. Some people will want to return to the
good old days when everybody knew everybody and we sang out of hymnals.
All I know is this:
as long as there is one more person who needs a relationship with Christ we need to keep growing. And as we grow, it'll get more and more complicated.
5) The bigger we get the more we have to guard our heartsAs we get bigger so does
the target on our back!
We have to make sure we're doing
ministry out of the overflow of what God is doing in our own lives! We need to make sure God is doing something
in us not just
through us! We have to make sure we're
doing ministry at a pace that is sustainable! We have to make sure that we are
seeking God day in and day out. We have to make sure we're
doing the right things for the right reasons. And we have to make sure
our heart is in the right place.
Proverbs 4:23 says, "
Above all else, guard your heart for it is the wellspring of life."
6) The bigger we get the better stewards we need to be
It seems like God is explanding our
local influence in the Washington, DC area. And in 2007 we'll launch
NCC en Espanol as well as our
fourth location in Northwest DC.
God is also expanding our
national influence. We feel called to be
a teaching church. That certainly doesn't mean we have it all figured out, but God seems to be opening lots of doors of opportunity. We want to be very intentional about sharing our
best practices and
lessons learned with other churches.
As we get bigger
the stakes get higher!
Luke 12:48 says, "From everything who have been given much,
much will be demanded."
7) The bigger we get the more we have to remind ourselves of why we're doing what we're doing and who we're doing it for
I've said it a thousand times, but I'll say it again. One of the greatest dangers we face is
learning how and
forgetting why. We stop doing ministry out of imagination and start doing
ministry out of memory. We stop
creating the future and start
repeating the past.
One of the dangers a growing church faces is
the temptation to stop doing what got them there! It is so easy to become
reactionary or
bureaucratic. My role as pastor is
protector of the DNA. I need to make sure we keep replicating the DNA that makes us who we are! I need to make sure we keep living out our
core values and
core convictions. As leaders, our
most important and
most difficult job is
creating and managing culture!
My life has changed dramtically over the past year, but I don't want to change. What I mean by that is this:
I don't want to become who I'm not! And the key is remembering
why I'm doing what I'm doing and
who I'm doing it for!
Am I building
altars to God or
monuments to myself? Saul went from
building altars to God in I Samuel 14:35 to
building monuments to himself in I Samuel 15:12.
The more insecure we are the more monuments we'll try to build. Go back to building altars to God.
I asked an
author friend for some advice before my book came off the press and I got some great advice: "The longer you do this,
the more you'll get pushed. And you need to know
what's okay for you. That's between you and Jesus.
And you need to know, because if you don't, then you'll become the thing you don't want to become."
At the end of the day, the key to leadership is
following in the footsteps of Jesus. Follow in His footsteps and you'll never get
off track!
Tailgate Jesus!