Thursday, January 31, 2008

Upcoming Conferences

Just thought I'd share a few of the upcoming conferences that I'm speaking at. I think each conference would be well worth the investment. To be perfectly honest, I'm not going to speak. I'm going to learn! I love speaking at conferences I would want to attend anyway!

Evolve--February 17-18.
Innovative Impact, March 7-8.
Awaken--April 1-3.
National Conference on Preaching--April 7-9
The Nova Experience, April 10-12.
Exponential--April 20-24.
The Whiteboard Sessions--May 22.

And for what it's worth, here are two conferences I cannot attend but I sure wish I could. I love the C3 conference at Fellowship Church with Ed Young. And I've got to make it down to New Spring, hang with out my friend Perry Noble, and check out Unleash.

Off to California

I'm flying out to California today to tape two TV programs for CCN. Excited about the opportunity. I'll do two one-hour segments on right-brain leadership and the five greatest challenges every leader faces. Then I'll hop a plane back to DC tomorrow.

Shared Experience

I Thessalonians 2:7-8 has always been a linchpin verse for me when it comes to discipleship. It's not just about sharing information. It's about sharing life.

We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well.

I'm more and more convinced that discipleship is all about shared experiences. Think of it as discipleship super-glue. That is why Jesus invited the disciples to follow him. He basically wanted to hang out with them and do life together.

As my kids get older, one of the things I enjoy about parenting is sharing experiences by sharing hobbies. That is why I wanted to learn how to snowboard with Parker. I knew that shared experience wouldn't just be fun. I knew it would create memories and build the bond between us. I think we'll take up rock climbing this summer. And that is why so many of my life goals involve my family. It's not just about achieving the goal. It's about sharing the experience!

This picture represents the shared experience we had in Utah. Two masked men, or one boy and one man, skiing the slopes!

FSM

I had a great FSM with Parker last night. A weekly meeting is part of the discipleship covenant we made at the beginning of the year and I'm convinced a consistent touchpoint is huger than huge. It creates a natural window to discuss important things. And here's a free tip. Every once in a while, take them to their favorite restaurant and meet over some ribs.

I'll eventually write a book detailing the theology and methodology behind all of this because so many dads want help discipling their sons. But I'm trying to share things as we go too.

Part of the covenant we made is reading through the New Testament together. I'm trying to take that to the next level by having Parker develop the daily discipline of reading Scripture. For me that is in the morning. For him it'll be in the evening. He's much more of an owl than a lark. If he can develop that spiritual habit of spending time with God each day it'll be more important than anything else we accomplish during this year!

We also started working on our code of conduct. We're trying to come up with core values that we want to define us. Not sure what it'll look like. And I'm not just trying to force my values on him. The word education means to draw out. I'm trying to draw out of him who he wants to become. Eventually we'll condense that code of conduct into a coat of arms that we will design together.

Finally, I want to say that this sounds much better and much easier in blog form. Not every meeting feels like a success. And sometimes it seems like we're moving backwards. But if you are determined to disciple your children, and you keep meeting week in and week out, some good things and God things are going to happen!

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

1000 Pounds of In a Pit

The sixth printing of In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day is off the press. And we just got 1000 pounds of books delivered. We're doing a special deal to celebrate the sixth printing: buy a case and we'll give you a case free. Really excited about how many churches are doing sermon series and small group studies. Hope this helps get more books into more hands.

You can email resources@theaterchurch.com for details.

Chase the lion!

Nice Surprise

Via our webcast and podcast, God has expanded NCC's influence to some pretty exotic places all around the world. We actually minister to more people virtually than we do in person. Obviously, I'm not suggesting that a podcast is a substitute for a person being plugged into a local church. But it's a great supplement.

Yesterday I had the privilege of meeting some of our extended family--that's how I view our podcast listeners and webcast watchers. A couple from Switzerland happened to be in DC and they stopped by Ebenezers. Very cool to meet some folks who have been part of NCC-at-large for a couple years.

It was another reminder that if it's worth preaching it's worth podcasting!

Carpe technology!

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Four Dimensions of Courage

Few things are as energizing to me as hanging out with pastors. I love my tribe! And I really enjoy smaller contexts where we can dialog. This morning I talked about four dimensions of courage with a group of local pastors.

#1 The courage to be yourself

I started out in ministry trying to be a pastor. Now I'm trying to be myself. And there is a difference! I think part of spiritual growth is coming to terms with who you are and who you aren't. It takes tremendous courage to be transparent. But when a leader is authentic about their imperfections then it creates a culture where people are free to be themselves.

#2 The courage to preach the truth

We live in a culture where it is wrong to say something is wrong! And that's wrong. I'd rather be biblically correct than politically correct. And if we don't raise our voice and stand up for truth then we lose our right to complain!

#3 The courage to confront

Jesus was full of grace and truth. Grace means I'll love you no matter what. Truth means I'll be honest with you no matter what. I think courage is the combination of grace and truth.

#4 The courage to offend

Abraham Lincoln said, "You can please all of the people some of the time, some of the people all of the time, but you cannot please all the people all of the time."
In other words, you're going to offend someone. And who you choose to offend will define your leadership. Jesus offended Pharisees!

The essence of spiritual courage is being more afraid of offending the Holy Spirit than pleasing people!

Monday, January 28, 2008

TV Taping

I'm flying out to San Jose, CA this week to tape two TV programs for CCN--the church communication network. I'll be talking about right-brain leadership and the five greatest challenges every leader faces. The taping is Friday morning and they have limited space for a studio audience. Love to have some blog readers and friendly faces to talk to. If you live in the area and want to attend, you can RSVP to Angee Hambrick at ahamrick@ccn.tv.

See you in Sunny CA!

Incompetence

We are hosting a small leadership gathering today at Ebenezers and my topic is competence. Just thought I'd blog a few thoughts.

One of my fall-back verses has always been II Corinthians 3:4-6:

Such confidence as this is ours through Christ before God. Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God. He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant--not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.

I've always loved the phrase: our competence comes from God.

In my experience, God often uses us at our point of incompetence. I had no pastoral experience, except for a summer internship, before becoming lead pastor of NCC. No one on our staff had even worked at a coffeehouse when we started building Ebenezers. We were totally unqualified. But calling is more important than qualification.

Noah wasn't qualified to build the ark. Nehemiah wasn't qualified to rebuild the wall of Jerusalem. David wasn't qualified to fight Goliath. Moses wasn't qualified to lead the Israelites. And Peter certainly wasn't qualified to walk on water.

It is our incompetence that keeps us humble and keeps us dependent upon God. But that awareness of our own incompetence needs to be coupled with the awareness that our competence comes from God. So the locus of our confidence isn't in our ability. The locus of confidence is God's ability. It's not self-confidence. It's God-confidence! It is the faithfulness of God that fuels our faith!

Mountain Sunrise

One of the things I enjoyed about Utah was watching the sun rise from behind the mountains. In fact, in my gratitude journal I thanked God for the colors pink and purple! It had been awhile since I'd done that! I'm sure people who see the mountains everyday get used to them. Psychologists call it inattentional blindness. And I guess I get used to seeing the Capitol just about everyday. But I got up before sunrise most mornings on our trip just to see the sunrise.

Here's a picture from our hotel on the first morning in Utah. The sun was just beginning to peek over the peak.

Weekend Reflections

What a weekend. The leadership retreat was off the hook. So much energy and synergy when you get 160+ leaders together in the same room! And our team went the extra mile putting it together and pulling it off! What I feel really good about is that we put more time, effort, and energy into our own leadership retreat than we do the Buzz Conference.

Really enjoyed preaching yesterday. I cast a little vision and talked about how to be the church. There is a unique excitement and momentum at the beginning of a new year. All of our students come back. And we had a ton of first-time guests!

Definitely enjoyed my Sunday afternoon siesta!

Sunday, January 27, 2008

Parker's First Technical Foul

The dream of an undefeated season died last night. We lost by three points. Here's the killer. What really hurt us was a technical on my son in the fourth quarter. Here's how he got it. The front of his jersey was #24. The back of his jersey was #25. Can you believe that? We've gone the entire season and never noticed it. The ref called a technical and they hit a foul shot that put them up for good with two minutes left. Craziness!

The good news is that Parker had a couple great baskets and our kids played their hearts out. I don't mind losing if we played hard. Alright, I'm lying. I still hate losing. But it makes it a little easier to swallow.

Friday, January 25, 2008

2008 Leadership Retreat

Our family is headed up to NCC's annual leadership retreat in Falling Waters, WV. I feel like this is one of our most important events of the year. Our staff and zone leaders put a ton of time and energy into planning it and pulling it off. We also pay the way for all of our small group and ministry leaders to get away for 24 hours. We cast some vision. We do some training. And we set the tone for the upcoming year! Lots of vision! Lots of fun!

Every year I get a little nostalgic thinking about how far we've come as a church. It is an Ebenezer moment for me: Hitherto the Lord has helped us.

And I'm confident our best days are still ahead of us! In fact, as part of the prayer journal I am keeping this year I write out a verse of the day that I meditate on. Today's verse was I Peter 1:3: Now we live with a wonderful expectation. Anticipation is such a precious gift from God. I can't wait to see what God does in 2008.

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Chairlifts

Parker and I just got back from two days of snowboarding at The Canyons in Park City, Utah. I thought I'd share a few reflections and a few pictures over the next few days.

One of my reflections is that I love chairlifts! I think chairlifts are one of the most peaceful places on earth. It's so quiet. It feels like you are floating above the earth. It's just you and the person you're with. And it is a much needed rest between runs.

Chairlifts are the epitome of peace!

I shot this picture while on the Saddleback Express headed up to Snow Dancer.

The Crash

My predominant prayer while snowboarding in Utah was for safety! Parker and I have only been snowboarding twice so we aren't ready for the X games quite yet. We definitely had our fair share of wipe outs, but one of them really scared me.

On one of the blue runs, Parker went off the edge and it was about a 45 degree angle down the side of the mountain into tons of powder. He literally disappeared. I kept calling his name, but he didn't answer so I was afraid he hit a tree. I finally made it over there and God answered our prayer for safety. He was buried chest deep in snow and surrounded by three little saplings that caught him.

I couldn't resist taking a shot with my phone camera.

Webcast

If you want to check out the webcast of last weekend's offsite sermon it is up on theaterchurch.com.

One of our core values is everything is an experiment. We viewed this message as a preaching experiment. We've done lots of on location videos, but never an entire message from start to finish. I think it's worth checking out.

For the Love of Pizza

Today may be my definition of a long day. I got up at 4:30 AM and we didn't get home until after midnight! Parker and I spent ten hours at Chicago O'Hare. We were on a flight that had mechanical problems so we had to deplane. We were standby on another flight that had one spot, but there were two of us so we missed that flight. We finally got the last flight out of Chicago.

That is the bad news. Here is the good news.

Before the day unraveled, I thought we'd have a two-hour layover so we ordered a pizza from the closest Lou Malnati's in Elk Grove. We hailed a round-trip taxi. And Parker and I devoured a large pepperoni deep dish in the backseat of the taxi. I think the taxi driver thought we were crazy. The entire cab smelled like a pizza sauna. And the windows were all steamed up because it was hot.

I love Lou Malnati's! Best pizza on the planet.

Monday, January 21, 2008

Rick Warren

A few months ago I met Rick Warren at the Catalyst Conference. Rick pastors Saddleback Community Church and is the author of the best-selling non-fiction book in American history, The Purpose-Driven Life. Rick is passionate about mentoring the next generation of pastors so I told him that we'd love to host a gathering with local pastors the next time he was in DC.

Long story short, Rick is coming to town for the National Prayer Breakfast. And we're privileged to host a gathering for Lead Pastors or Senior Leaders on Monday, February 4 at 1 PM. The event will be held at Ebenezers Coffeehouse. And space is limited so it's RSVP only.

To RSVP, email juliet@theaterchurch.com.

Off to the Canyons

Had a blast speaking at Elevation Church yesterday. It was fun seeing how another theater church sets up. I always pick up a few ideas!

We're off to The Canyons to snowboard for the next two days. Check this out. The forecast is calling for up to two feet of snow! I love it. I'm a little nervous because the greens out here are like black diamonds back home. Can't wait to hit the slopes!

The Pack will be Back

I'm not gonna lie. The packers loss was a heartbreak! I read a study once that found that fans of winning teams experience a 20% increase in testosterone after a win while fans of losing teams experience a 20% drop in testosterone after a loss.

I actually had a hard time sleeping last night. Kept replaying key plays that hurt the Packers. I keep trying to remind myself that I never expected the Packers to be as good as they were this year, but they were so close to the Super Bowl. My only hope is that the interception in overtime motivates Brett Favre to come back for another season! You can't end your career that way, Brett!

The Pack will be back!

Sunday, January 20, 2008

83 Opportunities

We are getting ready to kick off our Spring Sememster of small groups at NCC. Our small groups are the community in National Community Church. For what it's worth, we do groups on a semester system so we have easy entry points and exit points. I think it helps new NCCers get integrated.

So excited about the groups we're offering this semester! Props to our discipleship pastor, Heather Zempel, along with our zone leaders, team leaders, and small group leaders. Every semester is a quantum undertaking. But we do it for one reason: our job as leaders is to engineer opportunities for people to grow spiritually. We've got 83 of them this semester.

If you want to get plugged in, check out our online catalog.



Friday, January 18, 2008

Off to Utah

Parker and I are flying to Utah today. Super excited about speaking at Elevation Church and hanging out with my friend, Trinity Jordan. I'll talk about chasing lions on Sunday. And then we're hanging out there for a couple days to go snowboarding at The Canyons and hopefully catch a flick at the Sundance Film Festival.

106,368 Cups of Coffee

We closed the 2007 books on Ebenezers and did a few calculations. Looks like we've filled up 106,368 cups of coffee since we opened our doors on March 15, 2006. Man, that's a lot of Joe! And that doesn't include all of our other coffee drinks we offer.

Cool beans!

Thursday, January 17, 2008

The Blizzard Sermon

We spent about four hours shooting this weekend's message. It doesn't snow much in DC, but our video shoot coincided with the heaviest snow of the year. I was soaking wet and freezing cold by the time we called it a wrap. We hit several places in DC that supplemented the message including the IRS, McDonald's drive-thru, and the ATM at my bank.

Producing the message is a lot more difficult than just preaching it! I think it'll be a good change of pace. We're really trying to keep our creative edge sharp this year. We don't want to just do things the way we've always done them. We have a core value: everything is an experiment. Last weekend we experimented with more meditative worship by adding Scripture verses to our worship set. This weekend it'll be a video message.

I ran out of mental energy. And I found myself cutting out some of the content because it felt longer on video than it does behind the pulpit. But I think the message will preach. Look forward to seeing what our media department does with it.

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Offsite Sermons

I've always believed that anytime you can preach anywhere besides behind the pulpit you need to do it. Jesus rarely preached in the synagogue. He preached on mountains and beaches. And he used roman coins and little children as sermon props. The reason we don't do more offsite or on location sermons is simply because it takes more time and energy. Creativity is hard work. It takes extra effort.

Long story short, we are experimenting with an offsite sermon next weekend. I'll actually be in Utah. But we're shooting and editing the video before I leave. I'm hoping the change of scenery actually supplements the message and makes it more powerful. It definitely requires more work, but we want to see how to it flies.

Everything is an experiment! If you want to see how the experiment turns out, you can watch the webcast next week.

Invite Cards

One of our primary objectives as a church is to turn attenders into inviters. Church is a tag team sport. And one of the ways we empower people to invite people is by handing out invite cards.

We like playing off the movie theater or metro motif. Here is our newest invite card that plays off our vision of meeting in movie theaters at metro stops throughout the DC area.

PS. We made the card generic because of copyright issues. We steered clear of making it too DC specific so we don't infringe on anybody else's creative property. And the image is a stock photo that we purchased.


Monday, January 14, 2008

Sixth Printing

The sixth printing of In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day comes off the press in two weeks. If you'd like to pre-order a case at a special discount we'll hook you up. To celebrate the sixth printing, we're doing a buy a case/get a case free special.

You can email resources@theaterchurch.com for details or to place an order.

Chase the Lion!


Awaken Conference

Excited about speaking at the Awaken Conference on April 1-3 in Los Angeles. Just posted a guest blog on the Awaken blog titled "Everything is an Experiment" if you want to check it out.

Also, I wanted to let you know that Awaken is offering a 15% discount to evotional readers. And that includes individual tickets or group tickets. Pretty sweet deal. The early bird deadline is 2/15.

They are also offering a free DVD when you register with this code: awaken08evotional.

You can register here.

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Weekend Reflections

I had the weekend off. Nice little breather. Gotta say that I love going to church with my family without any responsibilities every once in a while!

Heather continued the How series with How to Study the Bible. The message was so inspirational and so practical. And we added a little twist to worship that was so cool. It really primed me for worship. We started and ended worship with Scripture meditations on the screen. We used them to frame the songs and put them in biblical context. It's a small thing, but I felt like I had a greater appreciation for what I was singing. And I was ready to worship on the first note.

One of my definitions of spiritual leadership is this: keeping what is sacred from becoming routine. I feel like we accomplished that this weekend with worship. Every once in a while you have to throw a change-up or curve ball to mix things up.

Great message. Great worship. Great weekend.

Thank God for Adrenaline

I'm keeping a gratitude journal as a part of my prayer journal so everyday I write out three things I'm grateful for. Yesterday it was adrenaline. It was what I'd call a high adrenaline day.

For starters, the Packers won a huge playoff game. I'm a die hard Packers fan. Have been since I was in 2nd grade. I used to cry when they lost. And I haven't totally outgrown that. I was awfully scared when they went down by two touchdowns in the first five minutes of the game. But what an adrenaline rush when they came back to win.

And Parker's game last night was off the hook. What an adrenaline rush. We were losing after the first quarter, but we ended up winning a hard fought game. And Parker had a couple sweet shots! As the coach I feel like I'm the sixth man. I think my encouragement on the sideline translates into extra energy on the court. Let's just say that I lost my voice trying to out encourage the other coach! I'm so grateful for coaching. What a great competitive outlet.

Thank God for adrenaline!

Saturday, January 12, 2008

Objects in the Mirror are Closer than they Appear

I just felt like I wanted to do a blog disclaimer.

I posted about goals quite a bit this past week. But I don't want it to come across like I jump out of bed every morning and look for a big, hairy, audacious goal to accomplish! I get up every morning and pick up our dog's poop. That is how my day begins. Some days I don't even feel like getting out of bed. I think I hit my snooze button an average of 2.3 times per day. And I get discouraged and demotivated like everyone else.

I never want it to come across like I'm super-dad or super-pastor. I get mad at my kids. I have lots of shortcomings as a pastor. And I experience writer's block all the time.

You know the old adage: objects in the mirror appear closer than they are? There ought to be a blog disclaimer: bloggers appear to be better than they really are.

My prayer batting average isn't any better than anyone else's. I wish I heard God's voice more consistently and more clearly. And I wish I didn't mess up so much!

Just wanted to put that out there.

Bball Milestone

Our caboose, Josiah, has his first basketball practice today. Too cute! And I thought it was challenging with Parker's team! Basketball at this stage is very interesting. The question isn't whether or not they will make the shot. It's how many times will they get hit in the head with a basketball.

Good times.

Friday, January 11, 2008

That's a Wrap

I've never been so happy to hear the words: that's a wrap. Honestly, I'm not sure what those words even mean. But after ten hours of recording, my job is done. Really enjoyed the experience, but I feel like I have a bad case of strep throat.

I guess the editing turn-around time is about six weeks. The book will be in CD format and downloadable. I'll post the 411 once it's ready to roll.

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Tired Voice

I spent six hours in the studio recording In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day. I love new experiences so it was cool getting an education in audio books. Believe it or not, my tongue actually got tired. My throat is a little sore. And I was mentally exhausted by the end of the day. But what a fun challenge.

So glad I'm reading the book myself. Seems so much more authentic since they are my ideas and my stories. Makes it more first-person.

I've got about three more hours left of studio work and we'll call it a wrap. I feel bad for the poor editor! I think I did a decent job and there are still hundreds of audio edits that need to be made. My P's were popping like crazy!

Audio Book

I'm heading off to a recording studio today to read my book. We're turning In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day into an audio book. Excited about the experience. And I feel good about being able to read it myself. I feel like it adds some authenticity since I'm the author.

Not sure how long it takes to get from studio to stores, but it's fun to think of people listening to the book on a road trip or commute to work.

Wednesday, January 09, 2008

FSM

Every week Parker and I do an FSM--Father/Son Meeting. It is the most important meeting of my week. Honestly, not all of the meetings are all that exciting. But they give us a consistent touch point. And some of our FSM's are pretty significant. That is how I feel about tonight's meeting. As part of the covenant we signed, I am helping Parker come up with his first list of life goals. He is at 43 goals as of tonight. What's cool to me is that we have lots of shared goals. It'll be a ton of fun going after those goals together!

Tuesday, January 08, 2008

Ten Steps to Setting Goals

This weekend we kicked off our How series. We're talking about everything from How to Set Life Goals to How to Study the Bible to How to Manage Your Money. I think the series will be inspiring, but our goal is to be painfully practical. It's not a self-help series. It is a stewardship series. Really hope it helps people maximize their God-given potential.

We kicked off this weekend with How to Set Life Goals. You can watch the webcast or listen to the podcast when it's uploaded this week.

Here are the ten steps:

#1 Start with Prayer

If you just set a bunch of selfish goals you'd be better off spiritually if you didn't accomplish them! Set your goals in the context of prayer so your goals are conceived by God. Then they become an expression of faith.

#2 Check Your Motives

#3 Get Ideas From Others

Don't copy other people's goals. But its ok to get ideas from others. Other people's life goals help your synapses fire in new ways. I've been inspired by two goal-setters: John Goddard and Ted Leonsis. And I hope my life goal list helps my kids set their goals. In fact, I'm sure we'll end up with some shared goals.

#4 Think in Categories.

Different categories help me think of different kinds of goals. I have five categories: 1) family goals 2) travel goals 3) physical goals 4) experience goals 5) influence goals.

You can check out my life goal list here.

#5 Be Specific
#6 Write Them Down
#7 Include Others

Most of my goals involve others. I don't want to accomplish lots of goals without taking anybody along with me for the ride.

#8 Celebrate Along the Way
#9 Think Big

Big goals make big people. You need some crazy goals that require divine intervention. Big goals are good for you because they force you to work like it depends on you and pray like it depends on God.

#10 Keep Dreaming

It's never too late to be who you might have been. It doesn't matter how old you are or how many times you've failed. Keep setting new goals.

Sunday, January 06, 2008

W Column

I'm coaching Parker's basketball team again this season. Great competitive outlet. The first game goes in a the W column! And Parker had a sweet jumper from about fifteen feet.

Saturday, January 05, 2008

Life Goals

This weekend we kick off a series titled How and my topic is How to Set Life Goals. I'll post 10 Keys to Setting Goals in a separate blog, but here is my list of life goals as it stands on 01.01.08. One disclaimer: I'm still in the process of adding, subtracting, and upgrading this list.

I feel a little vulnerable sharing these goals because they are so personal. And I realize that some of them are subject to interpretation. And some of them could be perceived as selfish in nature. For example, owning a vacation home. But the motivation behind it is two-fold: 1) It is a way of diversing our portfolio and saving for retirement. 2) We have been blessed by people who have allowed us to stay at their homes when we couldn't afford a vacation. We want to return the favor. We view the house as a ministry. It is a way we'll be able to bless others who cannot afford a vacation.

I guess what I'm getting at is this: the motivation behind the goal is huge. If your motivation is wrong, then you'd be better off not accomplishing it.

I tried to set these goals in the context of prayer. So I honestly see all of them as spiritual goals. Even the travel goals. Travel is one way to worship God. The more of creation I experience the more I appreciate the Creator!

Enough disclaimers.

My primary motivation in sharing this list is that I hope it inspires you to come up with your own list of life goals.

Here is my list of 100 Life Goals:

Family Goals

1) Celebrate 50th Wedding Anniversary

2) Live to meet my Great Grandchildren

3) Celebrate an Anniversary in Italy

4) Celebrate an Anniversary in the Caribbean

5) Take each of our kids on a mission trip

6) Coach a team for each of our kids

7) Own a Vacation Home

8) Take Summer to a Broadway Play

9) Take Parker to a film festival

10) Climb a 14er with one of my kids

11) Run a 10K with one of my kids

12) Run a triathlon with one of my kids

13) Take a three-month sabbatical

14) Send each of our kids on an all-expenses paid honeymoon

15) Pay for our grandchildren's college education

16) Take my parents on a cruise

17) Take our grandchildren on a cruise

18) Go on a canoe trip with one of my kids

19) Drive a race car with one of my kids

20) Go skydiving with one of my kids

21) Go parasailing as a family

22) Go horseback riding as a family

23) Go skiing in Colorado as a family

24) Take our family on an RV vacation

25) Complete a one-year discipleship program with my sons

26) Take each of our kids on a rite of passage pilgrimage

27) Research our family genealogy

28) Design a Family Coat of Arms

29) Write an autobiography for my grandchildren

30) Take our grandchildren to Disney World

31) Go camping with our grandchildren

32) Take our grandchildren to a State Fair

33) Create a charitable family foundation

34) Celebrate a family reunion in Alexandria, Minnesota


Travel Goals

35) Climb to the Cliff Churches in Lailebela, Ethiopia

36) Go on a pilgrimage to Jerusalem

37) Stay in the Ahwahnee Lodge in Yosemite

38) Climb Half Dome

39) Take Lora to Catalina Island

40) See a dingo in the Australian Outback

41) Snorkel the Great Barrier Reef

42) Climb the Red Center in the Australian Outback

43) Go on an African Safari

44) See the Aurora Borealis

45) Go kayaking in Alaska

46) Go surfing in South Africa

47) Retrace one of Paul's missionary journeys

48) Pilgrimage to the Castle Church in Wittenberg, Germany

49) Take a Boat Cruise down the Rhine River

50) Ride a Gondola in Venice

51) Run with the Bulls in Spain

52) See the Sunrise on Cadillac Mountain

53) Hike the Haleakala Trail in Hawaii

54) Straddle the Equator

55) See the Blue Grotto in Italy

56) Visit the Parthenon in Athens, Greece

57) Kiss Lora on top of the Eiffel Tower

58) Play a round of golf at St. Andrews in Scotland

Experience Goals

59) Go to a Superbowl

60) Go to a Packers game at Lambeau Field

61) Ride a Mule into the Grand Canyon

62) Take a helicopter ride over the Grand Canyon

63) Raft a Class V River

64) Go Cave Tubing in South America

65) Go Hang Gliding

66) Do a personal retreat at a monastery

67) Spend a night in a tree house hotel

68) Spend a night on a house boat

69) Go cliff jumping

70) Take a Hot Air Balloon Ride

71) Learn to Snowboard

72) Learn to Surf

73) Do a Forty Day Fast

74) Do a stand-up comedy routine

75) Take Lora to the Oscars

76) Take a month-long vacation


Physical Goals

77) Run a Half Marathon

78) Run a Triathlon

79) Swim the Escape from Alcatraz

80) Bike a Century

81) Dunk a basketball at 40+

82) Bench Press 250 Pounds at 50+

83) Run a Triathlon at 60+


Influence Goals

84) Write 25 Books

85) Sell 10 million copies

86) Write a New York Times Bestseller

87) Earn a Doctoral Degree

88) Teach a College Class

89) Be Financially Independent by 55

90) Give away $3 million lifetime

91) Pastor one church for 35+ years

92) Make movie

93) Host a radio or TV program

94) Plant 100 churches

95) Create a Leadership Conference

96) Speak at a college commencement

97) Open a Chain of Coffeehouses

98) Take a mission trip to five different continents

99) Lead NCC to 10,000+ in attendance

100) Lead NCC to give $25,000,000 to missions



Prayer Journal

Just thought I'd share one of my New Year's resolutions.

I am keeping a prayer journal this year. I used to think that writing out your prayers seemed scripted and less spiritual. But there is something powerful about keeping track of what your praying about. Too often we fail to give God the credit because we forgot what we prayed for by the time God answers our prayer! A prayer journal insures that I give credit where credit is due!

I really don't know how the journal is going to take shape yet. I think it will be part meditation journal. I'm also writing down key verses that I'm meditating on. In a sense, I'm praying through the Bible instead of reading through the Bible.

I think my journal will also be part gratitude journal where I keep track of the things I'm grateful for. I think thanksgiving is the heart of prayer. Prayer that starts with thanksgiving puts us in the right frame of spirit.

It's not too late to try something like this if you don't have a New Year's resolution.

Thursday, January 03, 2008

Theme Verse

I decided to begin the new year by reading the book of Joshua. And one verse has become a theme verse for this year.

Let me make a confession: I don't feel like I spent enough time in the Word of God this past year. Based on my conversations with other pastors, I think most of us feel like we don't pray enough or read the Bible enough. And as a pastor, Bible study can become a professional endeavor. It is so easy to study the Bible for the wrong reasons. I can study it looking for what God wants to say through me instead of what God wants to do in me.

Joshua 1:7-8 says:

Be strong and very courageous. Obey all the laws Moses gave you. Do not turn away from them, and you will be successful in everything you do. Study this Book of the Law continually. Meditate on it day and night so you may be sure to obey all that is written in it. Only then will you succeed.

If I'm reading this right, the key to success is studying the Bible. I know that sounds simplistic. But that is where we draw the strength and courage to do the things that will make us successful. Scripture isn't just inspired. It inspires! It is the source of strength and courage. And success is the byproduct.

Now here is a thought. I don't think the Bible was meant to be read. I think it was meant to be meditated. Meditation is a thoughtful or prayer reading. I came up with this little mantra few years ago: reading without meditating is like eating without digesting. If you don't meditate you lose all of the nutrients.

I'd encourage you to meditate on this verse and the Holy Spirit will inspire you. The end result will be a more intentional and consistent consumption of Scripture. And if you study His word, God promises success.

Here's to a successful 2008.

Wednesday, January 02, 2008

What a Blast

I love speaking to college students. So much energy. So much potential. I also enjoyed hanging out with the students. Check this out--they had a corn hole tournament. That's what I'm talking about. Very cool way to bring in the New Year.

Headed home bright and early in the AM.

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

Lion Chaser's Manifesto

As we kick off a New Year, I thought I'd post the lion chaser's manifesto.

Read it. Print it. Post it. Live it.

Quit living as if the purpose of life is to arrive safely at death. Set God-sized goals. Pursue God-ordained passions. Go after a dream that is destined to fail without divine intervention. Keep asking questions. Keep making mistakes. Keep seeking God. Stop pointing out problems and become part of the solution. Stop repeating the past and start creating the future. Stop playing it safe and start taking risks. Expand your horizons. Accumulate experiences. Enjoy the journey. Find every excuse you can to celebrate everything you can. Live like today is the first day and last day of your life. Don't let what's wrong with you keep you from worshiping what's right with God. Burn sinful bridges. Blaze new trails. Criticize by creating. Worry less about what people think and more about what God thinks. Don't try to be who you're not. Be yourself. Laugh at yourself. Quit holding out. Quit holding back. Quit running away.

Chase the lion.

Off to Atlanta

I flew to Atlanta this morning to speak at the Unveiled 07 Conference put on by Campus Crusade. National Airport was absolutely empty! Not too many morning flyers on New Years Day!

I really debated whether or not to accept this invite because it was on a holiday, but it is such a unique opportunity to influence students that I said yes. Plus it's a quick trip--in one day and out the next. Hopefully the 600+ college students who are here will head home ready to chase some lions in 2008!

New Years Tradition

I love traditions. And I think creating them and sustaining them is one of our chief responsibilities as parents.

One of my favorite family traditions is our traditional New Year's Eve dinner at Tony Cheng's in Chinatown. Love the food. And we all take turns sharing our favorite memories from the past year. It's a great way to say goodbye to the past year and welcome the New Year.